I have always been a firm believer that anyone can be tempted if you put yourself into a situation where temptation can be presented. But I guess the question I have is..... Why do people give into that temptation? Is it boredom, loneliness, unhappiness or what? I have heard stories of people having affairs but still loving their significant other, but is that possible? Well I guess to answer my own question I would say it is possible to still love that person but either you are not in love with them or you just have no respect for them or yourself. And if both parties having the affair are involved with other people then what does that get you? It gets 2 broken homes and 4 messed up heads! And do people really think that having an affair with a married person will get them anywhere because as the old saying goes...If they do it with you they will do it to you! I really believe though that men and women have affairs for totally different reasons. Of course this is just my own personal opinion but I think women have emotional affairs and men have sexual affairs. I don't think either party sets out to be malicious to their partner but in the end they are. I don't think women have emotional affairs because their husband doesn't listen I just think they want someone else to listen and show they care. And men also don't have sexual affairs just because sex isn't good with their spouse, I think it is because it is just different sex.
I truly believe that no woman is happy just being someones sex buddy just as no man wants to be just a woman's emotional partner. So why do people do it or what do they intend to gain from it all?
Now I have no idea why I have decided to write this blog but I always ponder the question of why and just thought that maybe if I put all down in black in white maybe I would see it more clearly. I also wonder do men and women have different desires or are they in all actuality the same just packaged differently?
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